last time i wrote on this, was right before i left for japan. but i'm not here to talk about my trip, that would take WAY too fucking long. ha. but i will say, that it was absolutely amazing. and i wish i never left.
but, really, what i need to express more about is my feelings. especially towards the guys. ha, sounds pretty typical, right? but i'm sorta in a pickle. and it's a pretty bad one.
have you ever had those dreams where you feel like they are so real, but when you wake up, you wonder, "why the fuck did i just have that dream?!" i had that this morning, and it kept me thinking all day so far. why did i have it?
what happened, was i went on a roadtrip to mass, with a friend of mine. a boy, actually. that i really have serious feelings for. i don't quite understand why we were on a roadtrip, but during it, he got a phonecall from his girlfriend (in real life, he's single) and he was having alot of problems with her. i woke up super early this morning, and since i fell asleep last night watching mtv, i woke up to hear "you belong with me" by taylor swift. and i love that song, with a passion.
i thought it was kinda creepy though, yknow? if you can catch where this is going, you'd understand why all day i've been listening to that song and thinking about that boy. even though he doesn't have a girlfriend, there is a girl on his mind, and it's not me.
i wish i could just tell him, tell him everything, all the feelings i've ever had for this boy. but when i get to the point where i feel vulnerable enough to tell him, i shut down. and everything starts all over again; i don't know what to do. he's the only one that's been on my mind, and it'll stay like that for a long time, i can tell.
i can either wait two months, until i go up to vermont for thanksgiving. or i can just go ahead and straight up tell him. waiting, things could change to be good or bad. maybe he'll date that girl within those two months, maybe he won't and i can have the perfect moment to do it then. or maybe everything will go wrong, little by little.
-____- i'll update more often now.
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Last year my sister had the same problem, but guess what? she got with the guy and is still going out with him. He had a girlfriend and everything. My advice would be to hang out with him as much as you can, without being clingy and annoying, and show him how much fun you two have together. I'm sure he will see what he's missing and will forget about the other girl. good luck dani! :)
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thank you so much for this advice, i took it and used that as my advantage, and now we're not technically 'boyfriend and girlfriend' but we're dating, which is just what i wanted for right now:D i hung out with him all weekend, and he completely forgot about the other girl basically. everything's going great, and i love it. thanks so much for your help(:!
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